Rubbing is a complex psychological process that is based on the influence of one person on another. A person using the rubbing method persuades another to act in a way that is convenient for him, i.e. in a way that is beneficial to him. He pretends to help or advise, but at the same time he has the goal of self-promotion. The use of rubbing is dangerous, it can be very dangerous, because the person with the help of whom they want to achieve something by deception may not even know that he is being controlled. This tactic also has its consequences. The main disadvantage is broken trust and severance of relationships, as the person feels deceived and is greatly offended. But few people know where the mistrust between partners appeared.