Quarrels between spouses are normal in any marriage. However, if the conflict is not resolved in time, it can lead to serious problems in the relationship. Recently, psychologists from the University of Nottingham have developed a new spray that will help spouses make peace after a quarrel.
The secret of the spray is the use of the “hug hormone” - oxytocin. Oxytocin is a natural hormone that is produced in the human body. It increases sensitivity in men and calms women. Also, this hormone increases libido and a sense of trust in your partner. It plays an important role in the emotional bond between mother and child.
Clinical experiments have shown that oxytocin spray actually helps spouses become more friendly after a quarrel and helps make peace faster. 17 married couples aged from 20 to 50 years took part in the experiment. Each couple spent 45 minutes recalling conflict situations in the family, after which half of the couples were asked to inject oxytocin spray into their noses, and the other half - a placebo spray.
The results of the experiment showed that a spray with oxytocin helps spouses become more friendly after a quarrel and helps them make peace faster. Medical analysis confirmed that the spray does not leave any traces of overstimulation in the nervous system of women who have used it. In men, the drug reduced demands on their significant other and increased friendliness.
Doctors recommend injecting the spray twice a day to increase sexual activity in a couple and strengthen understanding between spouses. Now every married couple who wants to preserve their love and carry a warm relationship through the years should not give in to the heat of a quarrel and can use the “reconciliation spray”, which will not allow the spouses to quarrel for a long time and accumulate grievances against each other, and as a result, will make the marriage more happy.
So, a new anti-quarrel spray, created by scientists from the University of Nottingham, can help maintain a warm relationship between spouses. The spray contains oxytocin - the hug hormone, which helps spouses become more friendly after a quarrel and helps to make peace faster. This spray can be a useful tool for couples who want to preserve their relationship and carry it through the years without allowing resentment and disagreements to build up. However, in addition to using the spray, it is also important to work on your emotions and ability to resolve conflicts in relationships.
According to research, the most common reasons for quarrels between spouses are: financial problems, lack of attention and care, different views on raising children, sexual problems and disagreements in everyday affairs. It is important to learn how to communicate effectively and work out compromises to avoid unnecessary conflicts.
Either way, anti-quarrel spray can be a useful tool in dealing with conflicts in relationships. It will help spouses establish contact faster and make the relationship more friendly. However, it is not a panacea for all relationship problems and will not replace working on your emotions and conflict resolution skills.