Marriage Killed Our Love

Marriage killed our love

When I met my wife, we doted on each other. But several years of living together seemed to kill our love. There is some kind of boredom and fatigue in the air... At the same time, we still really like each other. What happened?

Psychologists say that building family relationships is an art that needs to be learned, sometimes overstepping oneself and pushing one’s own egoism into the background. It must be remembered that in family life not everything is always smooth, that there are both ups and downs. And you need to be prepared for complex and sometimes conflict situations that arise in everyday life.

Sexual harmony is one of the factors that determine family relationships. According to a survey conducted by experts, 80% of married people, regardless of age, described their sex life as routine, monotonous and incomparable to what it was before the wedding. The dissatisfaction of a woman or man is reflected in the partner and often results in irritability and cooling of the relationship.

In all aspects of family relationships, certain rules should be followed, which only at first glance seem simple:

1. Know how to restrain yourself. In any conflict there is a line that should never be crossed. There is no need to make any final judgments or bring up old grievances.

2. Praise your partner more often, pay attention to his successes, show that his opinion is important to you.

3. Joint activities bring you together, try to spend more free time together.

4. Sometimes arrange small celebrations and surprises for your loved one.

5. Even if you have known each other for many years, keep in shape and don’t give up, remain that attractive woman or fit man that your “half” once liked.

6. Beware of absolute frankness in relationships, keep some part of your inner world to yourself. Familiarity kills both love and marriage.

7. Sometimes relax separately so as not to tire of each other. Allow your partner to feel free for a while. This short separation will bring new emotions and sensations into your union.

If a husband believes that his sexual relationship with his wife has begun to deteriorate, if the wife constantly avoids intimacy under the pretext of fatigue, headache, illness or business, then it is best not to reproach her or insist on intimacy, but to find out the reason for her cooling towards sex . If spouses have been married for a long time, then they can talk frankly without hurting each other’s pride.

Discuss the slightest problems, do not let small problems grow into big ones. The ability to openly share your doubts and worries with a loved one and the confidence that he will understand everything correctly is the key to harmony.