Sexy Kung Fu - Energy Management

This week we will return to pair practice (pair development). I will teach you how to raise the energy flow along the back of your sexual partner. Using your hands and willpower, you will direct the flow of Jing Chi along your partner's spine. Learn how to share your energy with him.

During copulation in the face-to-face position, the functional channels of the partners located on the front line are in direct contact. If lovers are excited, it is not difficult to feel the interaction of the channels, since sexual energy is concentrated in the genital area.

During ejaculation, a man irreplaceably expends energy. This can be avoided if he directs the energy up the control channel, which runs along the spine, from the perineum to the head. A woman's orgasm does not lead to energy losses. However, if she, like a man, knows how to direct energy (ching qi) up the control channel, she will receive additional pleasure. In addition, this procedure strengthens the male and female body and has a rejuvenating effect on the brain.

Partners can help each other by raising the energy flow along the lover’s back with the help of their hands and willpower. The exercise can be performed either separately or together. Energy is controlled through the fingertips and the dragon and tiger cavities located in the center of the palms.

To manage sexual energy during sexual intercourse, you need to remain calm, relaxed and not lose control of yourself. It is this quality that is necessary for long-term sexual intercourse. Taoists prefer long-lasting and full-fledged pleasure to quick and exhausting orgasmic relief. In this sense, a person faces a choice: either he subordinates sexual energy to his will, or becomes its slave.

1. 1. Start with caresses. When you are sufficiently aroused, make love in a face-to-face position. It does not matter which partner is at the top and which is at the bottom. The main thing is that their bodies are in direct contact along the front line (when starting to learn this exercise, refrain from sitting poses; with experience, you can choose any pose).
2. 2. Continue making love until you reach the pre-orgasmic state. Without bringing it to orgasm, stop the friction and relax your bodies.
3. 3. Place your right hand on your partner’s sacrum and touch your tailbone with your middle finger. Cover your right palm with your left palm and align the tiger cavity of your left palm with the dragon cavity of your right palm
4. 4. Focus your inner vision on your partner's sexual organs. Imagine or feel connected to his sexual energy.
5. 5. With an effort of will, direct his sexual energy to the tailbone, then to the sacral foramen (a small hole in the sacrum 2.5 cm above the tailbone).
6. 6. Direct the energy in a spiral from the combined points on the palms (tiger and dragon hollows) to your partner’s sacrum.
7. 7. Raise your sexual energy to the area of ​​your own sacrum.
8. 8. Direct energy in a spiral from your partner’s sacrum to your sacrum and back. Do this exercise several times.
9. 9. Make love again. You can use the Taoist technique of superficial friction (three, six or nine shallow movements) followed by deep insertion. Having reached a high level of excitement, stop the friction again.
10. 10. Place your right hand on your partner’s sacrum, and with your left hand cover the min-men point on his back.
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12. 11. Focus again on your partner's genitals and direct sexual energy to the Ming Men point on his back.
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14. 12. Spiral the energy from the tiger cavity on your left hand into your partner’s min men (also known as the “gate of life”).
15. 13. Raise sexual energy to your own min-men point.
16. 14. Send energy in a spiral from your min-men point to the corresponding point of your partner and back. Feel the energy circulating between your min men point and your fingertips on your partner's back. Direct your partner's energy to your min-men point. Feel the energy or internal heat spreading through your partner's kidneys, to the left and right of the min-men point.
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18. 15. As in the previous point, after achieving sexual arousal, manipulate the energy at point T-11 (chi-chun), located on the spine, opposite the solar plexus.
19. 16. Having reached a high level of excitation, stop the friction again. Place your left hand on the point opposite the heart center (T-5, jia-pe). Place your right hand on your partner’s sacrum, direct his sexual energy up the spine to the T-5 point. As in the previous paragraphs, twist the energy in a spiral.
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21. 17. Repeat the above exercise with the jade pillow located at the base of the skull. Raise your left hand towards the jade pillow. Send energy from the tiger's cavity. Direct the energy in a spiral upward towards the jade pillow, between your bodies.
22. 18. Having reached a high degree of excitement, stop the friction and place your left hand on the back of your partner’s head. Direct the energy up your partner's back through the neck to the back of the head. Direct your own energy to the occipital point. Spiral the energy between your bodies to the occipital centers.
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24. 19. Mentally direct the energy down the partner’s functional channel (along the front line) to the genitals. At the same time, direct the energy downward with your left hand, running your palm down your partner's back to the buttocks.
25. 20. Look deeply into your partner's eyes and allow energy to circulate between your bodies. Gradually you can move on to frictions.
26. 21. Kiss your partner and feel the energetic connection between your tongues.
27. 22. Continue to make love by following the basic principles outlined in this book for “couple development.”

The ability to control sexual energy during intercourse will undoubtedly enrich your love relationships. With practice, ecstatic “explosions” between you and your chosen one will become commonplace. The feelings you will experience cannot be described.

Practicing “couple development” together will make you ideal partners, and your mutual passion and affection for each other will stand the test of time.

In the modern world, knowledge of Taoist sexual secrets can lead to partners being unfaithful to each other, and adultery often causes a break in relationships. This happens when partners do not use their full sexual potential. However, this is unlikely to happen if you and your partner together experience the incomparable magic and magic of love delights.

Sophistication in controlling sexual energy and the ability to channel it through a functional channel increases with practice. Over time, you will no longer need to interrupt sexual intercourse according to the scenario I proposed. You will make love in different positions and direct sexual energy to any part of the body. However, in the beginning I would advise sticking to the method described above. However, such a recommendation is valid only at first, because sexual life always leaves room for flights of fancy and cannot be regulated by any rules.